Trust & Doubt
Trusting God when he doesn't do what you asked
Much of Struggling Well circles a single question: can I trust God when he doesn't do what I asked, in the way I wanted, on the timeline I hoped for? Jimmy and Suzi are honest that hope can curdle into a demand, and that we sometimes get angry at a version of God we invented rather than the one in his word. What they keep coming back to is that faith rests on the object of our faith, not the amount of it, and that God himself is more satisfying than the rescue we came for.
In their words
“When he doesn't do it in a manner that I think it should be done or a time frame that I think it would be nice, then I realize that what I'm really looking for is, is it relationship or is it a transactional thing that gets him to deliver on what I need.”
— Jimmy, Ep 108
“That hope can turn into a demand that God come through in a certain way. And when he doesn't come through, then we step away from him in big ways. Sometimes people step away entirely.”
— Jimmy, Ep 168
“We make our own little story or narrative, theology, whatever you want to call it, of who God is that doesn't meet up with who he is in his word. And then we get angry at that construct that we've made, because that's not what God said at all.”
— Suzi, Ep 064
“Although faith feels like it's blind, my faith is in something solid. I read his word, I read about him, and I'm grounded in who he is, not in the circumstances. It's not the amount of faith I have, it's the object of my faith, which is Christ.”
— Jimmy & Suzi, Ep 008
“We know the story that he does rescue them, but it's that line, ‘and even if he doesn't, we're not going to bow down to you, Nebuchadnezzar’ — because God is more satisfying than even rescue.”
— Jimmy & Suzi, Ep 002
“Here's the other thing that's amazing about Job to me: he never stops going after God. So when he's struggling, when he's suffering, he continues to pursue God. I would think that that's one of the things that defines struggling well: when I will not turn away from God even though I don't understand.”
— Jimmy, Ep 050
Episodes on this theme
Kept in Perfect Peace
Jan 28, 2026 · 12 min
The Voice of the Good Shepherd
Jan 21, 2026 · 10 min
Struggling to Trust God
Nov 12, 2025 · 12 min
Contingency Prayers
Aug 13, 2025 · 11 min
Who Do You Say I Am?
Jul 30, 2025 · 8 min
Why, God? Part 2
Jul 23, 2025 · 12 min
Why, God? Part 1
Jul 16, 2025 · 12 min
How Long, Lord?
Jan 22, 2025 · 12 min
God With Us
Nov 20, 2024 · 13 min
Fear and Politics
Oct 30, 2024 · 8 min
Questioning God
Jul 24, 2024 · 14 min
“Help, I Need Somebody”
Jul 17, 2024 · 10 min
Why God Allows Pain and Suffering
Jul 3, 2024 · 10 min
Jimmy’s Health and the Manifest Presence of God
Apr 17, 2024 · 11 min
When You’re Feeling Icy With God
Feb 21, 2024 · 15 min
Walking Through Difficult Times
Jul 26, 2023 · 11 min
The Faith Influencers in Our Lives
Jul 12, 2023 · 17 min
Who Likes Change?
Mar 22, 2023 · 11 min
Q & A With Jimmy and Suzi, Part 1
Mar 22, 2023 · 12 min
Struggling Well as a Ministry Leader, Part 2
Mar 15, 2023 · 16 min
When Expectations Aren’t Met
Dec 21, 2022 · 12 min
Lessons From Daniel
Dec 14, 2022 · 12 min
Why Does the Struggle Come?
Nov 16, 2022 · 13 min
Control vs. Trust
Nov 9, 2022 · 11 min